Sunday, June 25, 2017

Pornography:7 Negative Effect Of Porn Addiction

Pornography otherwise known as Porn,is a problem. It is a personal problem for many and a cultural problem for all.You may think to yourself that you have not been affected by porn,but you have because an element of porn has been embedded in the surrounding culture.The huge size of the pornography industry,it's strong influence upon the media and the acceleration of technology ,paired with it's easy accessibility,anonymity, and afford-ability of porn for all contribute to it's increasing impact not only on Marriages but upon cultures too.
Sadly.there is no benefit of watching pornography as it only fills you with dopamine(feel good chemical) and then leaves you feeling guilt in your heart.Pornography affects you whether you've ever tried it or not(take a look everywhere;the average modern lady looks like something carved out of porn),whether you are a man or woman,struggling with watching it,or simply a mom or dad going through pornography marital relationship problem or you are a son or daughter trying to quit porn addiction.There is an abundant body of research on the harmful effects of pornography(and I do not think that what follows are necessarily th most detrimental of them),but here are seven negative effects of watching porn upon men and women
  • Porn contributes to social and psychological problem within men and women


Young men and women who become addicted to porn often neglect their school ,spend huge amount of money they do not have,become isolated from others,and often suffer depression.Dr William Struthers, a psycho-biologist from the University of Illinois Chicago,confirms some of these and adds more,finding that men who use porn become controlling,highly introverted.have high anxiety,narcissistic,curious,have low self esteem,depressed,dissociative,dis-tractable.
Most pornography users speaks and agree that porn momentarily creates and intensely pleasurable experience and what follows,are several negative lingering psychological experiences.


  • Porn rewires the Male Brain

As a man falls deeper into the mental habit of fixating on pornographic videos and images,his exposure to them creates neural pathways.Over time these neural paths become wider as they are repeatedly traveled with each exposure to pornography.These paths become automatic pathway through which interactions with girls are routed...users of porn have unknowingly created a neurological pattern that imprisons their ability to see women rightly as God created them in His own image.

An orgasm is one of the most pleasurable experience ever known to man.If you associate orgasm with your wife,a kiss,a scent,a body,a videos,that is what,over time,will turn you on;if you do decide to open your mind to an endless of evermore transgressive videos of sexual sluts,that is what it will take to turn you on.The ubiquity of sexual images around you does not not free erotica but dilutes it.



  • Pornography turns sex into Masturbation


Sex is an act of self-giving,mutually reciprocating intimacy but with porn,it becomes a selfish act of self-serving.


  • Porn demeans and Objectifies Women  


Soft core and hardcore pornography demeans the female gender in many ways.Pamela Paul,in her book "Pornified" quoting the research of one psychologist who researched pornography at Texas,A&M,writes:

Soft core pornography has a very negative effect on men as well.The problem with soft core pornography is that it's voyeurism teaches men to view women as objects rather than to be in relationships with women as human beings.According to Brook,pornography gives men the false impression that sex and pleasure are entirely different and not a part of relationships.In simple words,pornography is inherently self-centered ;something a man does by himself,for himself using another woman as the means to pleasure,as yet another product to consume.
Paul reference one experiment that revealed a rather shocking,further effect of porn:"men and women who were exposed to large amounts of pornography were significantly less likely to want daughters than those who had none.Who would want their own little girl to be treated that way?.Again,you should know that these are not only the effect of pornography addiction.The huge consumption of porn and the size of porn industry has hyper-sexualized the entire culture,men and women are born into a "pornified" culture,and women are the biggest losers.Dine further said ,
  1. By inundating girls and women with the message that their most worthy attribute is their sexual hotness and crowding out other messages,pop culture is grooming them just like an individual perpetrator would.It is slowly chipping away their self-esteem,stripping them of a sense of themselves as whole human beings,and providing them with an identity that emphasizes sex and deemphasizes every other human attribute.

  • Porn destroys the beauty of a real naked woman
The pornographic images and allure have supplanted that of a real naked woman.Today,real naked women are just another act of bad pornography.
  • Porn has a numbing effect Upon RealityPorn makes real sex and the real world boring when compared to watching blue movies on-line. It serves as narcotics to the emotional life of a man.Pornography leaves a man insensitive to both outrage and excitement,leading to an overall diminished  tugs feeling  of everyday life.Eventually.pornography addicts are left with a confused mix of multiple expectations about sex and numbed emotions about women...here is the real danger,when a man or woman gets bored with pornography,their fantasy and real world become stained.

  • Porn lies about what is mean't to be male and female(Porn tells false stories about men and women )

In the story of porn,women are "one dimensional"-they never say no,never get pregnant,eager to please ,and can't wait to have sex with any man and please them in whatever way imaginable(or even unimaginable).On the other hand,the story porn tells about men is that that all men are "soulless,heartless,a moral life support systems for erect penises who are entitled to use women in any way they want.These men often times demonstrate zero empathy,love or respect for the women they have sex with.
Final Note
Let's hear your opinion on the negative effects of Pornography.Ours is numbered 7!

1 comment:

  1. I fully agree with the points. It really destroys the beauty of our life.

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